Divorce and Separation in North Carolina
Whether it’s preparing a separation agreement or walking alongside you throughout the divorce process, our team is here to offer experienced guidance and responsive representation.
We Will Guide You Through the Divorce Process in North Carolina
You never expected to be here. Nobody does. But things will get better, and we are here with you every step of the way.
At The Law Office of Dustin McCrary, we help North Carolina families navigate divorce and separation with compassion, clarity, and care. Whether you’re considering a separation agreement or ready to begin the divorce process, our team will walk with you every step of the way, helping you move toward peace and stability.
Understanding the North Carolina Divorce Process
Divorce in North Carolina follows a specific legal process – but that doesn’t mean it has to be overwhelming. Our goal is to simplify what comes next for your individual journey and help you make informed, confident decisions.
What to Expect
One Year of Separation
North Carolina requires spouses to live “separate and apart” for one year before filing for an absolute divorce.
Filing for Divorce
Once the one-year separation is complete, the divorce complaint can be filed with the court.
Child Support
Contrary to popular belief, either during or before filing, you and your spouse can reach agreements on child custody, alimony, and property division.
Mediation or Trial
Many cases are resolved through mediation. If not, a judge will decide the outcome.
How We Help You Through the Divorce Process
We know divorce isn’t just a legal process, it’s also an emotional one. That’s why our approach combines skilled legal strategy with genuine compassion for what you’re going through.
Here’s What Clients Can Expect When They Work With Us:

Step-by-step guidance through paperwork, filings, and next steps

Clear communication and practical advice to help you make informed decisions

Support in mediation and negotiation, focused on protecting your family’s best interests

A caring, local team who treats you like a neighbor - not just another case number
What our clients say
“From the very beginning, Kelsey handled my divorce case with professionalism and understanding.”
“My experience with Dustin has been exceptional. He tells you how it is, what is possible, and works his hardest on the best outcome for clients.”
“What an amazing attorney and staff. Not only did they provide amazing guidance and representation, but they also delivered a fair and desirable result.”
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Common Divorce and Separation Questions
How long does a North Carolina divorce take?
In NC, most absolute divorces require one year of separation before filing. Timelines vary based on property, custody, and whether the case settles in mediation or proceeds to trial.
What’s the difference between separation and divorce?
A separation means spouses live apart with the intent to remain apart. A divorce legally ends the marriage. Many families use a separation agreement to address custody, support, and property while waiting to file for divorce.
Do I need “grounds” to file - or is no-fault available?
North Carolina primarily follows a no-fault divorce model based on one year of separation. However, “fault” such as marital misconduct or abandonment can still affect alimony and sometimes custody.
Who stays in the home during separation?
There’s no automatic rule. If your divorce goes to court, the court considers safety, the children’s stability, and the financial situation of each spouse. Temporary orders can determine who stays in the marital home while the case is pending if a resolution can’t be made otherwise.
How is property divided in North Carolina?
North Carolina uses equitable distribution, which means a fair – not always equal – division of marital property and debts. Courts consider factors like the length of marriage, each spouse’s income, and financial contributions.
We’ll Meet You Right Where You Are.
Taking the first step can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone.
Talk with our team about timelines, options, and a plan tailored to your situation. We help you navigate the legal and emotional impacts of divorce.



